Introduction
I was born in Detroit in June of 1974. My birthmother, due to
her own circumstances, gave me up for adoption. I lived in a
foster home for a couple of weeks before being adopted by my
family. My mom was a cancer survivor. This led her to adopt me
because she could no longer have children.
Both my mom and dad were very new Christians at the time of my
adoption and both of them came to the Lord through extraordinary
circumstances. Through my mom's battles with cancer, she came to
know the Lord through our next-door neighbor's witness. My dad
came to know the Lord through an accident that occurred while he
was working as a foreman at Republic Steel in Ferndale. He broke
his neck while attempting to fix some sort of machine and had a
miraculous recovery through the prayers of my mom and the
church. My dad's life was changed and now both my parents are
pastors at Oakland Christian Church in Oakland Township.
I went to school from second grade through graduation at a small
Christian school in Troy. It was an extremely strict school that
was affiliated with Bob Jones University. They had policies that
would get you expelled if you listened to Christian music, went
to movies, or were caught dancing. My parent's church on the
other hand actually encouraged dancing -- especially during
services!! So there was always a contradiction -- both places
calling themselves Christians but the two would never get along
if placed in the same room.
I pursued music throughout my childhood. My mom was the musical
director at my church and was very encouraging in that area. My
grandparents also supported my musical interests.
I played in a few bands along the way, while at the same time
trying not to get in trouble with my school for playing
Christian music. It was a very weird situation. I would play in
bands on the weekend and then sit through chapel services in
school, which had "alter calls" encouraging kids to come down
and repent for listening to Christian music.
I finally graduated in 1992 and went on to Wayne State
University where I attended for a year and a half. Wayne State
was like a breath of fresh air. I made lots of new friends and
really enjoyed being out from under the intense legalism. It was
a great year of spiritual growth for me, going from a graduating
class of 21 to a freshmen class of about 8000. My faith was
challenged and I realized that I actually was different from the
norm. My faith took root and I could tell that people noticed I
was different. I really wasn't sure what I wanted to do with my
life, beside play music, but coming from Detroit, you realize
that the chance of being able to do that for a living would be
rare. I pursued journalism and public relations. I kept praying
and asking God to use me.